I have already published this post in another blog that I own, but since it has very few readers, I decided to move some content here.
The word is very familiar to all of us. This is what everybody wants to find, the ultimate fulfillment of our lovelife.
But do we really know what a soulmate is? Before we find our soulmate, we need to know what it means in the truest sense of the word. I am lucky to be able to stumble upon some material by one of the greatest thinkers of our time, Deepak Chopra. And listening and reading to it filled my cup of knowledge to the brim.
I have learned that:
1. A soulmate is a soul that’s resonating in the same frequency as you are.
2.To attract your soul mate, you need to have the right mindset and that is not to look for the right person,but to become the right person. Every relationship is a mirror of the other. You must first know what kind of person you want to be, or the kind of relationship you want to have. When you finally have all the qualities that you want, then the soulmate will show up to reflect those qualities.
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3. Many people find themselves unlovable or incapable of loving which leads to their inability to experience true love. The world can sometimes be a cruel place, people grow up with labels stuck on their forehead. The incapability of someone to be lovable basically goes back to his childhood. Many things may have been said and done to him/her by parents, siblings, friends and everyone that’s essential to personal growth.
4. The key is to go beyond the story of your life because your true self is who you were before the story started. Before the story unfolded, you were already lovable, compassionate, irresistible and have empathy.
5.Single people have difficulty attracting love because they have a self-talk that reinforces the idea that they are not lovable. Again this is caused by labels, analyzing too much and judging too much. What you should realize is that you are not your story. You are the author of the story.
6. Letting go of your personal history will help you attract love, because you are not that. Instead, start writing a new story.
7. Meditation can manifest for you your soul mate. There are many kinds of meditiation, reflective, guided,meditation for self-awareness and meditation to actually manifest your soul mate.
8. The one thing that you can do to attract a soul mate : Be the change that you want to see in others. It is always that because it is not about looking for the right person but becoming the right person.
9. Think about the qualities you want in a soul mate. Become those qualities and you will manifest your soul mate.
So there, indeed finding your soul mate is not as easy as it seems. And from this day forth, I intend on changing the way I see myself, maybe then I would also change my perception of what my true soul mate is.
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Keeping the faith that I'd find mine,
Mei
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